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Aging in place: a guide for families

Many people want to stay in their own homes as they grow older, which is called aging in place. This guide explains home changes, local services and how to plan for when more help is needed.

General information only. This guide is not medical, legal or financial advice. Talk with a physician, and with an elder-law or financial professional where money or legal papers are involved, about your own situation.

What aging in place means

Aging in place means staying in your own home as you get older. Many families have concerns about safety, getting around or daily tasks, so it takes careful planning.

Making the home safer

Go through the home room by room to spot problems. Fix urgent dangers first, such as loose stair railings or poor lighting.

  • Grab bars near the toilet and in the tub or shower
  • Good lighting, especially at the top and bottom of stairs
  • Area rugs removed and carpets fixed firmly to the floor
  • Nonslip strips on surfaces that may get wet
  • A ramp with handrails to the front door

Services that can help

Family, friends and neighbors often provide much of the help. Community services and paid caregivers can add to it.

  • Meal delivery programs that bring meals to the home
  • Rides to medical visits, shopping and other errands
  • Home care for personal care, chores or health needs
  • Adult day programs and respite care that give caregivers a break
  • Emergency alert devices worn by the person

Planning for when more help is needed

Planning early, before a lot of care is needed, leaves time to make decisions together. Ask the person's doctor how any health conditions may affect daily life later on.

Talk as a family about what support is needed, and revisit the plan as needs change. A time may come when living at home is no longer safe or comfortable.

Frequently asked questions

You may be able to get help with repairs and safety updates. Ask your state housing finance agency, social services department or local community development groups.

Your local Area Agency on Aging or the Eldercare Locator can point you to services nearby. A doctor, social worker or senior center may also have ideas.

A geriatric care manager can help make a care plan and find services. They can be especially useful when family members live far apart.

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